Archive for April, 2010

I live in Cologne since I’ve been born 27 years ago. With my parents I actually lived in a little city 15 minutes outside Cologne, but Cologne always felt like home to me. When I moved here three years ago, I fell in love with the city all over again. Sometimes Cologne really sucks, because it is kind of small. You can’t easily avoid people you don’t want to see and it can get kind of boring. But it has it good sides, too!

What you may know about Cologne is the Kölsch beer. Yes, it is very famous and I like it. What comes together with the Kölsch beer are the breweries. Yesterday my husband and me fetched dinner in a brewery just around the corner. We go there on a regular basis, because sometimes you just crave the fabulous food they are serving. When eating in a brewery you first need to try a “Metthappen”. “Mett” is a kind of raw meat, which Germans love to eat on bread or breadrolls. You eat it with onions, salt and pepper, and I absolutely love it and will miss it like hell once we live in the US. Another famous thing about the Cologne breweries are the “Köbese”. The “Köbes” is the guy behind the bar, who serves you the Kölsch beer. “Köbese” are very mean and have a very mean sense of humor. But it is fun, because those guys have to be like that!

When we had our english friend Robert over for the wedding last year, we took him to one of the biggest brewery in Cologne. Robert was kind of shocked and totally overstrained, because the “Köbese” are not only mean, they also just serve you another beer without asking when yours is empty. Robert loved the bourgeois food, but even for him as an english guy it was way too much food.

I predict for myself that at every visit I will pay Germany once we live abroad, I will have to go to a brewery and eat there. My eating habits then will change, because I will not only eat one “Metthappen”, but hundreds. But what will never change is that Kölsch Breweries kind of belong to me like my hometown Cologne does. And sometimes a mean service combined with good food can heal your soul!

To understand this article, you need some extra information first. I am a little music addict and even more than I love music I adore good lyrics. My friends often laugh at me for quoting my favorite lyrics or judging songs by the topic they are about! And yes I admit it, this addiction does not only bring me a lot joy, it also gets me into trouble sometimes!

Our big wedding party in August comes nearer day by day and we still have a lot to plan and organize. The thing that makes me worry the most is the music. We do have a good DJ that will help us at the party itself, but still we are the ones who select the music. And for me this is one of the hardest decisions of my life. Especially when it comes to choosing the song I want to be played when I walk down the aisle, the song we will do our first dance to and the song that will open the dancefloor to everyone.

There are so many beautiful songs out there, but did you ever pay attention to what they are about? Last year I worked at a wedding, where they played Kelly Clarkson’s “Because of you” at the big romantic firework. Hello? This song is about struggling with people who once broke your heart and the consequences of this! At my colleagues wedding two years ago the first song played at the reception was “Take a Bow” by Rihanna. Again this song is about being cheated on by a huge liar! No offense, guys, but is this because you are germans and don’t understand the lyrics or because you just don’t care? Would you also chose a german song about cheating for your wedding?

I would actually love to only have songs that are about love and happy relationships at our wedding – even if anybody else will notice! But perhaps what now brings me in trouble and long discussions a lot, will help me once I live in the United Stated. Because it wouldn’t be cool to choose a song like “F***” by Archive for a new friends singing birthday card, right? Even if the song sounds good!